Friends & Trust !!!!!!!!!!

Why do people come into one's life..
I always believe there is some reason because of which they come to your life.. and once that's reason seize to exist.. then they fade away.. n then there are some people who you will find always around you .. to give that helping hand.. the shoulder to cry upon.. to give the tactful advice when you need it and stop you from making the fool of your self..

Now these people we call them as FRIENDS..

What does a friend mean.. the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis.They will also engage in mutually helping behaviour , such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviour. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.A friend is a hand that is always holding yours, no matter how close or far apart you may be. A friend is someone who is always there and will always, always care. A friend is a feeling of forever in the heart.

But then what happens if they come to harm..
And this harm is done unintentionally by the friend.. and there has been a small slip..
Because of this small slip the trust is lost.. how much ever you try to alter the things.. and try to convince the people involved that it was unintentionally.. it does never change..

Because the whole basis of the relationship was TRUST..
Its such a powerful word..

I had read somewhere.. that

“Trust is like a vase.. once it's broken, though you can fix it the vase will never be same again."

And I have come across situation's that seem so true.. The circumstances have lead it to be what they are in the present.. And one has to stop and wonder.. Why couldn't they just stop and think and realise that the person wouldn't have meant no harm.. As they say

It takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it..

And what happens then..

This blog is dedicated to all the people who have come into my life.. and who had left their impressions on me.. and those who are not with me for what ever reasons.. and for those who left me because I hurt them in some reason or the other ( knowingly or the unknowingly ).. Sorry if i did hurt you..
Thank you all for coming into my life.. :)

Finally

You meet people who forget you. You forget people you meet. But sometimes you meet those people you can't forget. Those are your 'friends.

Hope all of us do take times to remember our friends.. as they are so very precious..