Sunday, July 27, 2008

The Palace of Illusions !!!!!!!

Well people who are a die hard book worms..

This is a must read book . Especially for ladies. It gives such a different indepth meaning of things.. and also on Guys ( I'm not joking there ).

For that matter even guys should read the book, because you would have never thought of it in this way and what way or view is that. Its a women's point of view.

This book is all about Mahabarath.
So whats so different about it.. considering all of us know the mahabarath.
Well just that we have seen it through the view of a girl .
To be precise through the eyes of Draupadi.

I always thought all these epics are sooo male dominated ( sorry guys ) but I do.
I mean its always like.. Oh so and so is such a great warrior.. such a righteous man.. blah blah blah.. and so on..
Very few actually remember the ladies who actually might have acted as the catalyst for the whole chain of events ( yess I know.. we are the root of all the problems.. hehe what to do we can't help it ;) ).


Anyways I always wanted to know how she felt when she was made to marry all the 5 brothers.. and also wanted to know how her feelings was towards Karna.. Hehe well I was so happy to get a view on it..

And thats when I realised couple of things...

Expectations are like hidden rocks on your paths.. All they do is trip you up..

Time is even and merciful..

And I found these to be so true..

For the later.. the time is the same.. just that the situations and the circumstances in which we are makes it seem so different and making it seem such a while and make it seem such a big thing that you forget that sometimes you have to let go off things , nothing actually stays for ever ..

And this is where the former comes into place.. Because we expect soo much from our lives.. our family.. friends.. work.. studies.. be it anything.. and when we fall short of it.. It causes us such a big downfall..Ok may be downfall is not the right word.. Guess you just feel so low about it..
That you actually forget that all you have to do is try harder.. but not expect much in return..

Concentrate on trying to achieve the goal.. without thinking what you would get in return.. How much ever the pain is and the price you have to pay for that..

But the end question is do you wanna pay that price..???

17 comments:

Keshi said...

hey thats a great post! Made me think alot.


**Expectations are like hidden rocks on your paths.. All they do is trip you up..

loved that quote! to the core.

yes, they do make us trip, but w.o. them, we'd hv no lessons learnt.


*HUGS*

Keshi.

MAN IN PAINTING said...

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ani said...

Keshi :


I know what you mean.. with out the expectation we wouldnt wanna try to achieve anything in our life.. but then again... too much of expectation will also lead to its down fall..

so thats something we need to control.. along with our pride and ego..

ani said...

MIP :

Thank you so much..

It was truly a surprise.. was wondering what it would be..

but thank u so much.. really am honoured..

and now am waiting for your comments :)

Keshi said...

**too much of expectation will also lead to its down fall..

agree totally!

Thats why nowadays, I just stick to myself :)

Keshi.

Rajesh said...

very thought provoking...think the first of the kind in ur blog (atleast ever since i blog rolled u )..nice read...

P.S: Blog updated

Miracle said...

hey ani...as always...yur post touched me.. :)
"..all you have to do is try harder.. but not expect much in return.." But the end question is do you wanna pay that price..???
and thats what i have learnt from all my experiences... do what yu can do and jus don expect much in return... cuz wen yur expectation is not met...that is when yu get hurt... but ya theres always this dilemma...is it worth the pain? do yu really wanna pay the price that yu r paying!!
and after all is done...you know nothing jus matters...all that matters is YOU.. :)

Tejas Lakhani said...

Hey.
nice post.
keep up the good work.

1 suggestion is that If you change the font color coz right now it is painful for readers eye to read the post.

See if you can change font(Text) color to white.

Sorry u feel bad of my suggestion.

Corinne Rodrigues said...

Well, happiness equals reality minus expectations.....so said someone wise.......Thanks, Ani for your wisdom too!
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ani said...

Keshi ..

hehe thats exactly what i also do babe.. but then sometimes it does get lonely.. and another thing.. thats not us.. so eventually we are back to how we were..

changes take time..

ani said...

Rajesh..

hehe thank u thank u..

well what can i say getting influenced by you all.. so changes are bound to show on the post that i write as well..

ani said...

miracle..

prettyyy amm soo happy u have started bloggin after taking a break.. was so happy to see so many blogs to read from..

and rightly said.. end of the day all that matters is You.. i.e oneself.. but at the same time.. one shouldn't be completely self centered..

there should be a balance in things.. but at the same time.. one should know what one wants..

wish things were that simple isnt it..

ani said...

Tejas

thank u so much for visiting my blog..

about the font colour will keep that in mind..

let me see if i can do something that it doesnt glare that much.. :)

ani said...

Corrine..

thank you so much

and that sayin is soo true..

MAN IN PAINTING said...

All know is HIS-STORY.Nobody tells HER-STORY.
Very nice post
as always ,i liked it....
me too have updated
another comical form.
now i call it "notapoem"
welcome

ani said...

MIP

well i tried to tell things from HER point of view..

and i think HER point view is more interesting than HIS ;)

Soh said...

read the book...i can take credit for introducing her to it...and it is awesome!!